One suggestion is to make sure you both are using the same "math". There's old math and new math. The fuzziness comes into play because each has there own way of coming to the same conclusion.
What I'm really talking about is "expectations". The greater the expectation, greater the resentment...bitterness, disappointment, anger and sadness. New equation: no expectations=no resentments. How does one work this equation in relationships???? with a constant flow of daily communication, tweeking the relationships when change occurs and accepting that men's math is plane and simply different from women's math.
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Life is messy, isn't it?!
One suggestion is to make sure you both are using the same "math". There's old math and new math. The fuzziness comes into play because each has there own way of coming to the same conclusion.
What I'm really talking about is "expectations". The greater the expectation, greater the resentment...bitterness, disappointment, anger and sadness. New equation: no expectations=no resentments. How does one work this equation in relationships???? with a constant flow of daily communication, tweeking the relationships when change occurs and accepting that men's math is plane and simply different from women's math.
each and everyday presents a new challenge!
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